What Are Your Intentions With my Daughter?

As I sat with my family for dinner at Red Robin’s the talk about marriage came up. My mother is a true believer that I shouldn’t waste years of my life with a man who has no intention on marrying me. I also agree with this. So, for the 4^th of July she planned on talking with *Scott who was planning on joining us. I agreed that maybe they should ask those questions of him since I am curious myself. So here we are, 4^th of July headed to my family bbq at Swartzwood State Park in Jersey. Well, at least we thought. By the time we arrived to the park at 11:30 am the state police had closed it off. So *Scott, myself, my sister and her friend *Jess went to *Jess’s mom’s home near by. There we set up our own little bbq. I told *Scott that he got out of the questioning. He was shocked I didn’t tell him that he was going to be questioned. My sister decided to take the opportunity to ask him, “So, what areeee your plans with my sister?”. To my embarrassment he sat there and made a face. My heart sank. He couldn’t come up with anything to say to my sister, I am glad he wasn’t around my family. I put that to the back of my mind until we were headed back to NYC. I asked him the same question as my sister did. Again he couldn’t answer. He then asked why would my mom ask that kind of question. “She wants me to get married in the next two years” I replied. He began laughing at the notion of getting married in two years. Again my heart sank into my chest realizing that I may be wasting my time with him. Another few years of my life wasted. I don’t know what to do. It is as if I can never have a serious conversation with him. I did everything I can but, after hearing that I just lost all energy and will. I don’t want to tell him I love him anymore. I have been waiting for the perfect time to do it. I just can’t now. Am I being over dramatic? Not this time. Not when the person you have spent 2 years of your life with can not put it words how they feel about you nor could they even come up with a good enough lie to even attempt to put your heart at ease in the attempt to buy time. Thoughts?