Saturday, October 13, 2012

On Advice


Who has the right to give advice? I mean, if I ask my sisters for opinions about something that they may have not experienced is that ok? Is it ok that I give advice that I don’t take? Maybe. I think that well all know the right thing to do and we can tell everyone the right way to do it but, somehow we still choose not to follow our amazing advice that we give our friends. I think that my new friend *K and I connected because we are both clueless in some ways. I do have a little more experience in a relationship, meaning just 1, than she does. For me I like to know other people’s thoughts or opinions about things I go through. I figure, a set of fresh eyes might give me a better point of view on whatever. *Scott got a little upset that I was giving *K relationship advice that he knows that I don’t follow. I have my own way of going about things though. I am a very non-confrontational person, or at least I try to be that way. I feel like I am just rambling. Is it ok to ask for advice about your relationship from other people?

2 comments:

  1. I think giving subjective advice is great. Take what you need to take and apply it to your life the way it best suits you. Sometimes it's best to learn from someone else's mistakes. Lol I know a lot of people that give heartfelt advice but they don't practice what they preach. Yeah it's weird at times 'cause you know what's going down in their personal life and your like, ummmm... Why don't you apply this shit to your life?!? But alas you can't live someone's life and they themselves have to idk maybe learn the hard way.

    Just don't always SHARE TOO MUCH... when you freely share REMEMBER they as well freely share with others, and you don't want every, Tom, Dick, and Harry knowing your business. Thread very lightly because if she uses your relationship as an example that might piss off her man, and TRUST he is coming for your man and your man is coming for dat azz!

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  2. I try not to share everything, and when I do ask for advice I try not to go into explicit detail.

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