I recently read an article on Thought Catalog about a man going into complete detail about cheating on his wife. Please, do yourself a favor and read the article first. Perhaps your view on it would be different than mine, I would love you to comment on it. The anonymous author begins his article by explaining how much he loves his wife. She is perfect and the sex and mind blowing. Pause. I highly doubt that things are so damn good. Throughout the article he is describing the story of how the affair happened, brewing over a set period of time until one night over drinks he did it to her. The most disgusting part about this was that he wrote it as if he was reliving and reveling in the moment. If he could clearly write down the details of the affair then how could he have not processed the hints or signs of flirtation up until that moment? It is very clear that he fully understood what was going on and chose to ignore it.
(Side note: Now, as I am writing this *Scott is breathing down my neck because now he thinks I am going to apply this to my life in some way.)
The funniest part was at the end when he told his wife. He wrote how she would cry all the time and not talk for periods of time. She also had been going for runs every morning and night for months. That right there friend is redemption. He didn’t mention that she would fight and argue with him. Maybe he was just sugar coating it. However, I do know this; she was likely cheating on him during those morning and night runs. I mean what else could explain the fact that she didn’t leave him nor bust him upside his head. The bottom line is, cheating is bad. Your instincts will tell you when you go. It isn’t animal urges that make you do it.
Have any of you experienced cheating?
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