For a few years now my ex boyfriend from high
school, I'm talking freshman/sophomore year, has been calling me and more
recently sending letters. He is currently in prison for who knows what and had
been there since maybe 2006 or 2007 I'm guessing. Since his incarceration he
has been calling me once or twice a year. I only accepted his calls after being
shamed into doing so by my sister and his brother. Back then a call would be
about 2 minutes. He would ask how life is, what am I doing you know basic stuff.
I felt sorry for him. This year he has stepped his game up, since I don't
answer my phone anymore, he is now sending letters. The first letter went about
the usual, asking how am I doing, him now apologizing for his treatment of me
during high school, and telling me how he will be getting out soon. Now, I am
not stupid, he think he is about to have some booty to come home to. Not only
that.. he is sending my step sister letters too...seriously. Oh, but he forgot
to mention that part in her letters. Where they do that at?
I did not respond to his letter, I figure the man
in my life doesn't deserve me giving any attention to any other man no matter
what the situation is. The next letter I received was an angry one. He was
upset that I didn't write him back. He was supposedly waiting each day for a
letter from me. Yeah, I laughed. In what lifetime does he think I will respond
to that non sense?
Today, I get yet another letter. This time a
physical card entitled "THINKING OF YOU --you came to my mind today-
It happens all the time". Inside a picture of him, doing that
ghetto ass jail pose. Inside he wrote :
Here's a little something for you
from me. If this makes you feel uncomfortable send it back. (The pic, throw the
card away). No hard feelings. I understand I have been waiting to hear back
from you, but I see that's not likely to happen. Unless you plan on surprising
me. Can't wait. Let everybody know I asked about them. And send my love. A gift
from em to you. If I don't hear back from you Happy B-day Oct. 23
All I could do was
shake my head while I read it. It has gotten to the point where I know I should
tell *Scott about this. I can't imagine how I would feel if some ex of his
would be sending him love letters even if he doesn't respond, I would want to
know. Should I tell him about this?
I think that you should tell him. Explain to him the whole situation will help. Who knows what will happen if your ex show up when you're with your bf and you didn't say him the situation until this moment? I think that it would hurts his feelings. Just my opinion, have a good day!
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