What do you do
when a friend of the opposite sex steps out of line? Well, I had to encounter
this on my weekend in Atlantic City. While in the hotel room with *Scott,
*Lonely Boy, and *K I received a phone call from a friend of mine. The phone
call was at 1:30 am. I had not time to reach and grab my phone before *Lonely
Boy picks it up and looks and the name and says,” Who the hell is *Mark calling
this late?”. I looked and him and grabbed the phone. *Scott proceeds to ask the
same question in a nasty tone. I told them I don’t know why he would call at
this hour. I went to sleep right after to avoid further questions. The next
morning I sent a message to *Mark letting him know it was disrespectful for
contacting me during booty call hours especially if he knows I have a man. I
told him not to contact me after 11 pm. He apologized for his actions and
claimed there was no reason for him to call except him being bored. Once I
finished speaking with him I told *Scott about it and he calmly flipped. In the
best possible tone he said – He has lost his privileges with you as a friend
and crossed the line. He gets no other chances so tell him to never contact you
again. I did not fight with him on the issue. I had to consider the fact that
if I were calling a guy at that hour it isn’t because I am just “bored”. So I
let him know that I respect his request. I am not going to continue to have a
friendship with *Mark. I am too chicken to say it so I am going to take the
easy way out by just ignoring him completely. What would you guys do if someone
blatantly disrespects your relationship?
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
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I don't know if a late night phone call is disrepecting your relationship, I honestly think you're boyfriend overreacted and if he really is your friend then you at least owe him an explanation as to why you don't want him in your life anyway. It's only fair.
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ReplyDeleteI think it was disrespectful and I would have ripped the guy a new one on the phone. I would have called him back and ripped him a new one. That is so rude, especially since he should know that you have a boyfriend. A friend should respect you first and foremost, he failed to do that. Btw, found you on My Boyfriend is Asian when you commented, so I checked out your blog. I am totally blogger creeping. :D
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