I first of all
want to thank my readers for emailing me for encouragement, advice, and to tell
me to my shit together. Today, I want to comment on a letter I got from *A. She
knows who she is but I want to keep her identity private. Her issue is that she
is caught in the middle of a love triangle. One friend had a crush on a guy but
the feelings weren’t returned, and the other friend tried to encourage the guy
to like the friend but ended up getting with him. When the first friend found
out she was hurt of course and now my reader *A is caught in the middle of a
fight between her two best friends. What is a girl to do??
As a young adult
you have to realize that you are needed for support now. For the friend that
was hurt, you have to remind her that the guy is free to like whom he wants
especially since he had already told her he wasn’t interested. However, for the
friend who started to like him, I would knock that bitch up beside her head. If
you are all best friends, she should have at least had the courtesy to ask for
permission to talk to him intimately. That is girlfriend rule #1. Boyfriends,
crushes, and ex’s are off limits unless exclusive permission is given. I had something
similar happen to me in high school. The difference was that my friend did not
disclose to me that she liked a certain guy. When he and I ended up liking each
other and she found out, she began to spread rumors about me. Knowing that you
are intentionally hurting a friend is screwed up and the girl needs to know it.
However! You have
to also take into consideration that a person cannot help whom they are
attracted to. Acting on it is where she messed up.
I can’t tell you
who is right or wrong. You know your girlfriends; therefore you would be able
to determine if things were done maliciously.
What do you guys
think about beings in the middle of a love triangle?
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